– Take your time. Touch each other slowly and sensually, breathe slowly, and take your time with foreplay and movements.
– Try to notice all the tiny, subtle sensations you are experiencing, plus all the emotions and feelings that are beginning to emerge.
– Leave the light on so you can look into your partner’s eyes.
– Deliberately avoid movements that are overly arousing and exciting.
– The most important thing to remember is that there is no “end goal. You are not climaxing, you are just playing, watching, and experimenting with sensual pleasure.