Self-love as an investment in the future

Since childhood, we are taught to share and suppress any initiative to do something for ourselves. You’re supposed to give, give and concede, but you’re not allowed to refuse, take and ask.

So is that the norm? Nope, you don’t have to be rude to old people or take candy from children, BUT to have a certain benefit from every day you live, you have to. Simply because there is nothing more reliable than you.

Forget your inner critic. It makes you procrastinate and sting before solving your problems and showing yourself as a person.

 You can dabble with affirmations, and sit in meditation for hours, but it’s all for naught if you’re constantly berating and angry with yourself.

The more you invest in yourself, the more you love yourself. Invest in your knowledge, in your body, in your health, and your appearance. This will give you a tremendous amount of motivation.

Self-love is often seen as a fleeting emotion to be enjoyed in the present moment, but it is also an investment in the future. When we practice self-love, we prioritize our mental and emotional well-being, which can lead to greater success, happiness, and fulfilment over time.

Here are a few ways self-love can be an investment in your future:

1. Improved mental health: When we take care of our mental health by practising self-love, we are better equipped to cope with future challenges and stressors. We may be more resilient, have more positive coping mechanisms, and better emotional regulation skills. This can lead to a greater sense of well-being and satisfaction in our lives.

2. Better relationships: When we love ourselves, we are better able to love and connect with others. We are more likely to have healthy relationships that are built on mutual respect, trust, and kindness. This, in turn, can lead to long-lasting, meaningful relationships that bring us joy and support throughout our lives.

3. Pursuing our dreams: When we prioritize self-love, we are more likely to pursue our passions and interests. We may be more confident and motivated to take risks and chase our dreams, which can lead to greater success and fulfilment. This can lead to a future where we are living our best lives, doing work we love, and feeling fulfilled.

Overall, investing in self-love is an investment in a brighter and more fulfilling future. By taking care of ourselves mentally, emotionally, and physically, we can build a life that reflects our values and passions and that brings us joy and satisfaction.