In fact, as lovers, it only makes sense in a long-term relationship when the person next to you becomes truly family.
You know all his intonations, feel his moods, know all the secrets of his character and finally know how to make up and what to expect from him in general.
All his weaknesses and shortcomings bring a smile and some warmth to your soul.
And you can tell him condescendingly “blow off steam! “, “what have you done this time?”…
You stop trying to impress, you become yourself, you know that it’s not your imagination that’s being loved, it’s you.
And it’s so easy, it’s like a feeling of elation.
Have you noticed?!
You’re not acting.
You’re living with him, not existing.
And the most important thing for you is that nothing happens to him.
A permanent relationship is serious, responsible, and difficult, but it’s worth it because it has a future.
Everything else is meaningless.